Kram. It is a four-letter word. No doubt.
Yet more than that, it is a reminder how NOT to CHEAT
-- yourself :: you are better than you think. (No need to be insecure about it)
-- others :: it is no fault of theirs to regard you as a friend before knowing the truth about you. (Especially since you may not even know yourself yet)
-- time :: there is a time to prepare the ground, sow seeds, water, harvest, and sit back for others to do it their way. (If you love them set them free; if they return never had they been gone; if they do not never had they been yours)
-- God :: He gives you all that you have -- whatever was, is, or will be yours, are entirely yours to build. (We wish to lose no time to pursuing what we are meant for. Why would you squander yours wallowing in chagrin?)
Kram is a four-letter word. So is LOVE and its adversaries. How many would you bother to think of?
At the end of the day, what kind of four-letter word would you want your life to be, my FRIEND? Perhaps this little song could give you some big notions?
www.enlightenedbeings.com/music/shania-noll.mp3
Pray.